Feeding the fasting in your presence is also replete with Allah’s grace.
The Prophet, on him be peace said:
“The angles send blessings upon the faster who feeds others present with one until they finish” (Tirmidhî).
When is Laylatul Qadr?
The Prophet, on him be peace, said Laylatul Qadr is one of the last odd nights of the last 10 nights of Ramadan. So people should strive in their ritual prayer (ṣalâh) and other worship most on the 21st, 23rd, 25th, 27th, and 29th nights of Ramadan.
Of these, the strongest prophetic indication is one of the last three nights (Bukhârî), and the 27th favored among these, according to a prophetic report:
“One searching for Laylatul Qadr should seek it on the night of the 27th” (Muslim).
Yet in reality, we do not know with certainty on which of these last 10 Ramadan nights Laylatul Qadr falls.
We do know these last 10 nights of Ramadan are the greatest nights of the year because they contain Laylatul Qadr (just as the first 10 days of Dhu’l Ḥijjah, the month of Ḥajj, are the greatest days of the year because they hold the Days of Sacrifice (Ayyâm Al-Tashrîq), the Day of the Standing on ‘Arafah (which is the Ḥajj), and the Day of Tarwiyah (the 8th Day of Dhu’l Ḥijjah that begins the Ḥajj sojourn)).
Scholars have criticized those who seek to definitively designate the night of Laylatul Qadr (or various unknown locations of worship) as being like the Christians who celebrate Christmas. In other words, one should follow the instructions of the Prophet, on him be peace, when it comes to Laylatul Qadr: seek it out in the last 10 nights of Ramadan.
How can one be sure to give sadaqah on Laylatul Qadr?
The best way to ensure one’s worship “finds” Laylatul Qadr is to strive in all the last 10 nights as if each one is the Night of Empowering Decree.The best practice is to give in charity on each of the last 10 nights. This also follows the example of the Prophet, on him be peace. He greatly increased his generous giving throughout Ramadan, and he endeavored in his worship more than any other time its last 10 nights.
What worship is best on Laylatul Qadr?
Laylatul Qadr holds forgiveness for sins for the one who particularly makes much ritual prayer (ṣalâh) in it, while doing it in hope of reward from Allah.
The Prophet, on him be peace, said:
“One who stands much (in ṣalâh, ritual prayer) in Laylatul Qadr waiting for reward from Allah will be forgiven all his past sins” (Bukhari and Muslim).
The Prophet, on him be peace, strove harder in worship – in Ṣalâh-Prayer, in reciting Quran, in supplication (du’a), and in Allah’s remembrances (dhikr) – in Ramadan’s last 10 nights than at any other time.
He would stay up all night in worship, wake his family up for worship, and abstain from marital relations in these nights, according to his wife, ‘Aishah, Allah be pleased with her.
She specifically asked the Prophet, on him be peace:
“If I know a night to be Laylatul Qadr, what should I say on that night?”
He said: “Say: O Allah! You are all-pardoning. You love to pardon. So pardon me.” (In transliterated Arabic: Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun tuhibbu’l-‘afwa fa‘afu ‘anni.) (Tirmidhi).